Getting the wedding right is important for starting a marriage on the right note. However, each couple is unique, meaning that what is right for one couple might not be right for another. Still, there are some commonalities that can be used to help couples plan out the perfect wedding.
Here are some suggestions for using these commonalities:
First, it is important to choose a venue that is bound to please both the couple and their guests. Bear in mind that the best venue is neither the most famous nor the most popular, but rather a place that possesses special significance for the couple. In some cases, this could be a place that is popular for couples planning to hold their ceremonies, but in others, it might be something more unusual and unexpected. Regardless, the needs of the couple to be married constitute the single most important consideration.
Second, even though costs can add up, the couple should not skimp on the costs for their wedding unless their choice is to elope. Cost reflects value, meaning that cheaper options also have unfortunate tendencies of producing less desirable results than their more expensive counterparts. Still, the couple need not spend the same on all necessities for their wedding, because some are more important than others. For example, a skilled and experienced photographer of excellent reputation is essential because the photos and videos will shape the couple’s impression of the wedding for decades to come, but the same might not be true for some of the other personnel helping out.
On a final note, a special wedding also needs the couple’s personal touch from start to finish. For example, invitations should bear personalized messages from the couple, much as how place cards at the actual wedding should also bear personalized greetings to the guests. Furthermore, the couple should spend the time to choose their menu, their music selection, and other important details because of their influence on the overall mood and atmosphere of the wedding. The food included on the menu plus the manner in which it is being presented can either set the right mood or ruin it altogether, with much the same being true of the rest.
In the end, making a wedding special means tailoring it to the needs and tastes of the couple being married because their happiness should be the single most important consideration. It is their time in the spotlight, meaning that it should also be the time to prioritize their needs and tastes.
Inclusive Life specializes in working with each couple to create a day that is based on their beliefs, goals and vision. Through questionnaires, meetings, emails and phone calls, we get to know each other; this allows you to be married by a friend of the family, and not a stranger.
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